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You’ve probably suspected for a while that you’re a People Pleaser. Every time you go out with that friend you no longer really want to keep in touch with. Or every time you agree to babysit your cousin’s dog (even though you’re not much of a fur-lover yourself). Or whatever this scenario involves for you.
你可能曾经怀疑过自己是不是好好先生。比如在每次你和不再想联系的一位友人约会时，又或者你答应一位表亲帮他/她照顾狗狗时（虽然你自己并不是一位爱狗人士），你总是陷入要当好好先生的境地。

You say “yes” to make other people happy.
你答应对方，取悦别人。

5 Signs You’re a People Pleaser
以下是你成为好好先生的五个标志：

One: You have a hard time saying no to others.
感到无法拒绝别人。

Two: You don’t want to let anyone down. (oh my goodness, the guilt!)
不想让任何人失望。（我的天哪，内疚！）

Three: You’re afraid of making people feel bad.
害怕让他人感到难过。

Four: You prioritise other people’s needs over your own.
优先考虑别人的事情。

Five: You lose time working on other people’s agendas.
因为他人的安排耽误时间。